The Benefits of Being Sourced that Go Beyond Your Business
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The Benefits of Being Sourced that Go Beyond Your Business
By Darla LeDoux, Founder of Sourced and Author of the books Shift The Field and Retreat and Grow Rich

 

July 20, 2022

At Sourced, we help heart-centered, service-based entrepreneurs connect with their inner knowing and divine guidance in how they run their business and work with their clients that yield transformational results.

 

A year ago this week, I discovered my wife was having an affair. It was devastating. It was despair alternating with rage. In the big picture, because I know and understand transformation, I knew that somewhere in the rage and despair was gold.

 

I knew that to be true. I wasn’t happy about it, but I knew it to be true.

because I know and understand transformation, I knew that somewhere in the rage and despair, was gold.

How I Navigated the Circumstance

I knew because of my work and training as a Sourced Leader that I was equipped with the tools to navigate this circumstance and come out on the other side whole and in alignment with my soul.

 

It reminded me of a time when I lost $50K on an event. It was then that I became committed to hearing, listening to, and trusting my soul even when it didn’t make sense or was illogical. I’ve been doing it as an entrepreneur and business leader ever since.

 

Last year, when I needed to navigate a circumstance in my most special relationship, I relied on that guidance to show me the way.

 

I was traveling when I learned about my wife’s infidelity. I could sense that something was wrong. My inner-knowing was telling me something was “off.” So I probed, and that is how I found this life-altering news.

Last year, when I needed to navigate a circumstance in my most relationship, I relied on that same guidance to show me the way.

The very first thing I did? I hired a coach.

 

I hired someone I knew operated connected to their inner-knowing, or Sourced, like me. I knew they wouldn’t judge the circumstance one way or the other and would be able to hold a neutral space for me to determine my right next step.

 

One morning while on retreat in the Cascade mountains and communing with nature, something came through. I knew two specific things that came directly from my soul. I knew these two things needed to be true for me to continue in my marriage. If this and this, then I will be open to staying, I told myself.

 

In that moment, the relationship with my inner knowing, the relationship I had been cultivating for years, was accessible to me. If those inner needs were unmet, I knew it wouldn’t work. I knew! I knew the next right step for me.

In wake of this news The very first thing I did? I hired a coach.

Even though I was terrified, upset, and angry when I saw my wife again, I could reflect and determine my two things were not going to be met. It was clear.

 

There was a moment when I was asked to override my needs and bypass my feelings. I recognized that an older version of me would have allowed that, but now I knew what I needed, and instead, I honored that.

 

Since my loss of $50K, I have practiced honoring my inner knowing and cultivated that relationship with myself within my business that I finally saw this way of being overflow into my personal decisions.

 

My path was clear, and it no longer included her.

My path was clear. it no longer included her.

My business has become lighter, freer, more easful, and effective since developing my inner knowing, and I trust in all facets of my life including personal relationships.

 

It was ungrounding and displacing. It was the most challenging circumstance I have ever had to navigate. The good news – I knew what was right and true for me.

 

It wasn’t a “she is wrong, and I am right” knowing but rather a knowing that I needed a set of conditions to be a certain way for me to feel safe.

With the skills of a Sourced Leader, you will be clear; you will be grounded, and you will be able to move forward and grow.

What are you hearing in this?

I have since divorced. I have reclaimed my space, my home, my vision, and all of the pieces of me that I may have forgotten when I was in that relationship.

 

I don’t wish a circumstance like this on anyone, although we all have circumstances. If we are not grounded with a clear connection to our soul, we can get lost. It can get fuzzy and unclear which direction is the right direction for us.

 

I am sharing this story to advocate for becoming a Sourced Leader – someone who conducts their business and life from an inner-knowing, your Sourced Magic.

 

It’s a fun playground for your business and a way to catapult your own growth and be ready to navigate difficult circumstances when they arise.

 

With the skills of a Sourced Leader, you will be clear; you will be grounded, and you will be able to move forward and grow.

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